What Makes A Happy Relationship – The 3 KEY INGREDIENTS
Is an “open relationship” a non-commitment? Can you be committed in an open relationship? What’s the difference? I answer these questions on today’s video.
These are the 3 key 🔐 ingredients to unlock happiness in your relationships. These 3 things *ensure* that ‘happiness’ in your relationships are:
🔥long lasting happiness,
🔥real delight, and
🔥will get them to love you even more.
✋If you’re missing any ONE of the 3 ingredients, your relationship cannot have lasting happiness.
Here’s What You Learned:
1️⃣ This must presume that the relationship you want is a relationship based fundamentally on love – i.e. your love for them and their love for you. Any other relationship format which doesn’t make love the primary intention don’t require these 3 ‘keys’ since it’s a different goal they’re after (whether or not it’s directly communicated).
2️⃣ This information makes the most sense to you as you apply the ‘scientific method’ of learning – i.e. as you’re reading/listening to this information, use the mechanism in your head that determines *What Makes The Most Sense and Is The Most Reasonable*, do your best to get rid of your preconceived biases, apply it, test it, see how it turns out, find out what’s consistent and what’s correlation vs. causation… and from there recognize what works.
3️⃣ These “3 Keys To Happy Relationships” are fundamental requisites – they are REQUIRED. To have something as ‘fundamental’ means it’s of central importance. In logic, it’s called axiomatic – the premise where everything else follows.
4️ – Most of what you’ve learned about relationships and how you practice it is based on convention – how it’s commonly practiced. Because of this, most people follow these conventions without question (everyone else is doing it like this, it must be the way to do it).
5️ – The distinction between ‘conditional love’ and ‘unconditional love’ is the following:
(a). Conditional love requires relationship parameters to exist for you to love them.
(b). Unconditional love has no relationship parameters but simply the genuine desire for their happiness, well-being and actualization.
6️ – Unconditional love, since it’s your wanting for their happiness and actualization, doesn’t require their returning that love or having to be proximal (be with) you.
7️ – Nonjudgmental Acceptance is your understanding them deeply and encouraging them to be the person they are so long as you’re not forced to engage in deal-breakers.
8️ Open Communication is your and their ability to communicate openly – without feeling the need to keep secrets since they know they won’t be [emotionally] punished (or blackmailed) for speaking the[ir] truth.
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